Rent-A-Center

Remember your first love in high school that you used to think that you were going to marry? You told all your friends that he or she was the perfect one for you and that it would last forever. You even probably thought of names for your children, where you would get married, where you would live, and what type of occupations you both would have. But unfortunately  after a few months or years you realized it wasn't going to work. Maybe due to jealous friends that came in between the relationship, cheating, parents, college, or even something as little as one argument. Some end just because one person just wants to be single or people just grow apart.

Unfortunately for some people the break up of a long term relationship in high school has caused scars that can never be seen externally but enternally you can tell by the actions of these people. Prime example is that beautiful girl in high school that always had a boyfriend but after a bad break up just before graduation three years later in college she's still trying to get that feeling back of a long term exclusive relationship but instead of trying to find herself she is trying to date so many guys but to no avail. She turns her back on all her true friends for  guys that she doesn't know well enough to even consider dating while behind her back people are laughing at her and shaking their heads because she's trying to tie down guys that everyone besides her knows are individuals  who aren't boyfriend material at all. Males do the same thing and I will admit I have been a victim of it in certain situations myself.

But there comes a time in life where you have to realize that finding an exclusive relationship with a person that is just perfect for you is impossible, especially as a young person in their twenties or a college student in general. Finding the perfect relationship can be frustrating. It seems as if lust, jealously, and selfishness gets in the way. The best solution is to just stop caring. It's plain and simple but very hard to do. It takes a different kind of person to just not care but the people who do, realize what this dating game is about and some who do know what its all about still care. At times I care too, its a flaw in me unfortunately.

What is this " dating game" all about mean? Plain and simple is there is no dating game, not to sound ignorant or to even entertain a cliche but its all about fuck bitches get money.  I don't mean that figuralatively. I mean it as in just focus on your responsibilities and what is going to enable you to be successful in this selfish world. Don't worry about love and relationships because it gets in the way of whats really important. To sum this dating game up and to come up with an analogy for it, its " Rent-A-Center." That's what I compare this dating game to. You are with someone for a certain period of time you tell them how much you like them, do all the romantic boyfriend and girl friend things then there's a break up and its on to the next person. That next person maybe someone your best friend dated or even your sibling dating as well. What I'm trying to say is when you're with a person you are running on borrowed time until that person or you realize you don't want to be with your significant other anymore and then its over.

 You see Rent-A-Center dating all the time. Anyone who has dated Kim Kardashian is a prime example, as well as Jennifer Lopez, Shaquille O'neal, Karrine " Superhead" Evans, and Lil Wayne. In my opinion celeritys find it acceptable to continue to date so many people that they run into some of the same circles of partners that some of their close friends have even dated. One minute you could be with some chick you met a bar, the next minute you're with that girls best friend. Then later on you could be with another one of those girls best friends that so happened to be with your friend at one point of time or someone you knew in high school. You understand what I mean?

So when you're in a exclusive relationship, be the best you can be to your significant other. But don't feel guilty or don't be hurt when you want it to end or your partner wants it to end. It most likely never was going to last anyways. Always be optimistic about your future endeavors and make sure you handle your responsibilities. I have seen men and women due the craziest things over a bad break up. Threaten to kill themselves to get the person back, stalk their ex, stop eating, stop going to work, posting emo facebook messages about their ex, posting dumb songs that relate to their depressed love life, and even more stuff that gets annoying after a while. A lot of us are guilty of it! So as I digress realize what is this dating game is all about!