Community Service is always good. There's nothing more special than giving back to the less fortunate, by donating your money to the poor or even working at a soup kitchen. It may not even have to deal with people but also picking up trash on the side of the road, or even volunteering at an animal shelter are also rewarding community service activities. What makes community service so special is that when you give back for a good cause it makes you feel better. It gives you that feeling that you are being model citizen or you are doing " God's Work," whatever the case maybe for you I think we can all agree it makes you feel all warm inside.
But ever since the movie " The Blindside, " was released I have seen a surge in the amount of white women with bright futures feel the need to date young black males who have absolutely nothing to offer them. I'm sure most people have seen the movie about the pro football player Michael Oher, who was taken in by a white lady because he was homeless, taught by her family how to read, write, put on pants, use the bathroom, and be good student. All which lead to him going to college on a football scholarship then straight to the pro's. I digress from that. But my question is why has it ever become attractive to date anyone who has no education, no job, and no goals in life? It seems as if the movie "Blindside", has made it appealing for smart, young, beautiful, white women to date such dysfunctional black men. This form of community service may seem rewarding at first but after a few months or even a few years for you smart girls who continue to act dumb, it will burn a hole in your heart or even worst your purse.Yes I said worst your purse, some of ya'll females it shouldn't matter what happens to your heart because quite frankly you use it way too much and need to start using whats in your head more often.
The act of taking care of unattractive and dysfunctional black men, who captivate you women with their cute smiles, personalities, and fabricated life stories that often put you on a guilt trip into doing everything for them is called the "Blindside Effect." It can also be called the "Michael Oher Effect." But in past history this has always been used but just in different ways like in the 17th and 18th centuries when English missionaries would go around the world and convert many different races such as Africans into Christians. This was called the "White Man's Burden," because white missionaries around the world felt it was their duty to uplift different races of mankind, which they felt were inferior to them. Thus they thought of blacks as savages that needed to be civilized, so they taught them about Christianity. They also built churches and schools( but unfortunately that was after they enslaved, raped, killed, and pillage most communities).So this form of community service and philanthropy has been used since whites and blacks have interacted with each other.
For white women who prefer interracial relationships its absolutely fine. There is nothing wrong with dating or marrying a black man. But there's a big difference between dating a black man and a nigga. I'm sure we all can differentiate between the two. It is important not to confuse a black man with a nigga. They are two different groups within one race. So if your boyfriend hustles for a living, leaches off of you, or does cat burglaries( Hoping in people's windows dressed in all black when no one's home but the pets) then you are dating a nigga. In contrast a black man doesn't have to be some superstar athlete, entertainer, or some rich mogul. He can be a college educated person with a good job that handles all his responsibilities( These are the type that black women generally want and have a hard time getting). There is nothing wrong with dating someone who is in the middle, the middle is good as it draws less unnecessary attention, and everyone knows unnecessary attention generally isn't good.
So as I conclude from this I'd like to say if you like interracial relationships, choose a " black man, " who is going to bring the best out of you and who is going contribute to your well-being. There is no sense in dating anyone who won't do those two things for you. If he's not going to respect himself, he certainly isn't going to respect you. It's time for you to learn from the sistas and stay away from the " Blindside Effect," because we all hate it when the government takes our money don't let a dumb nigga do the same. #Louie
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