The Blindside Effect

Community Service is always good. There's nothing more special than giving back to the less fortunate, by donating your money to the poor or even working at a soup kitchen. It may not even have to deal with people but also picking up trash on the side of the road, or even volunteering at an animal shelter are also rewarding community service activities. What makes community service so special is that when you give back for a good cause it makes you feel better. It gives you that feeling  that you are being model citizen or you are doing " God's Work," whatever the case maybe for you I think we can all agree it makes  you feel all warm inside.

But ever since the movie  " The Blindside, " was released I have seen a surge in the amount of white women with bright futures feel the need to date young black males who have absolutely nothing to offer them. I'm sure most people have seen the movie about the pro football player Michael Oher, who was taken in by a white lady because he was homeless, taught by her family how to read, write, put on pants, use the bathroom, and be good student. All which lead to him going to college on a football scholarship then straight to the pro's. I digress from that. But my question is why has it  ever become attractive to date anyone who has no education, no job, and no goals in life? It seems as if the movie "Blindside", has made it appealing for smart, young, beautiful, white women to date such dysfunctional black men. This form of community service may seem rewarding at first but after a few months or even a few years for you smart girls who continue to act dumb, it will burn a hole in your heart or even worst your purse.Yes I said worst your purse, some of ya'll females it shouldn't matter what happens to your heart because quite frankly you use it way too much and need to start using whats in your head more often.

The act of taking care of unattractive and dysfunctional black men, who captivate you women with their  cute smiles, personalities, and  fabricated life stories that often put you on a guilt trip into doing everything for them is called the "Blindside Effect." It can also be called the "Michael Oher Effect." But in past history this has always been used but just in different ways like in the 17th and 18th centuries when English missionaries would go around the world and convert many different races such as Africans into Christians. This was called  the "White Man's Burden," because white missionaries around the world  felt it was their duty to uplift different races of mankind, which they felt were inferior to them. Thus they  thought of blacks as savages that needed to be civilized, so they taught them about Christianity. They also built churches and schools( but unfortunately that was after they enslaved, raped, killed, and pillage most communities).So this form of community service and philanthropy has been used since whites and blacks have interacted with each other.

For white women who prefer interracial relationships its absolutely fine. There is nothing wrong with dating or marrying a black man. But there's a big difference between dating a black man and a nigga. I'm sure we all can differentiate between the two. It is important not to confuse a black man with a nigga. They are two different groups within one race. So if your boyfriend hustles for a living, leaches off of you, or does cat burglaries( Hoping in people's windows dressed in all black when no one's home but the pets) then you are dating a nigga. In contrast a black man doesn't have to be some superstar athlete, entertainer, or some rich mogul. He can be a college educated person with a good job that handles all his responsibilities( These are the type that black women generally want and have a hard time getting). There is nothing wrong with dating someone who is in the middle, the middle is good as it draws less unnecessary attention, and everyone knows unnecessary attention generally isn't good.

So as I conclude from this I'd like to say if you like interracial relationships, choose a " black man, " who is going to bring the best out of you and who is going contribute to your well-being. There is no sense in dating anyone who won't do those two things for you. If he's not going to respect himself, he certainly isn't going to respect you. It's time for you to learn from the sistas and stay away from the " Blindside Effect," because we all hate it when the government takes our money don't let a dumb nigga do the same. #Louie

Keep ya Head up Floyd

I'm starting to see trends in  domestic violence and/or violence against women. It seems like throughout the history of mankind the most successful athletes or entertainers have been unable to refrain from putting their hands on their wives, significant others, and/or any plain ol' skeezer. A few that come to mind are Chris " Smackdown" Brown, Ike Turner,  Bobby Brown, Jason Kidd, Vanilla Ice, Allen Iverson,  Jaleel White ( Steve Irkle From Family Matters), Mike Tyson, Chris Beniot ( Who could forget about the wrestler who killed his wife, child and himself), Stone Cold Steve Austin and not surprisingly Gucci Mane, even back to the days when he was just a obscure artist performing shows across Atlanta rapping about the same bullshit he does today, he loved to back hand a dumb groupie.I  think the dumbest one of all is currently incarcerated Mystikal, who is a New Orleans rapper signed  to Cash Money who was incarcerated for 6 years for video taping a woman he sexually assaulted, because she allegedly stole money from him.I'm suprised he would even lay a finger on a woman since his sister Michelle Tyler was stabbed to death. Mystikal in my opinion should  have received a life sentence, not only for the sexual assault but because he filmed it as well. I scratch my head how such bright rappers like Mystikal and 2pac can be so stupid to incriminate themselves on videotape. Nothing gangsta about snitching on yourself.


In my opinion I don't believe a man should put their hands on a woman and I'm sure anyone reading this will agree too. But I don't believe men shouldn't put their hands on women because they are supposed to be respected or revered in some sort of way. Not every woman should be respected or put on some high pedestal, especially the gold diggers, groupies and any basic woman who is familiarize by a lot people with a negative connotation( Notice I typed " basic women" not " basic bitch"). Trust me if more than five people claim you are a slut its definitely coming from  reliable sources. But if you're like me or just interested in any sort of ignorance coming from Floyd Maywheather Jr. you  already know he is currently serving his 87 day sentence at Clark County Detention Center in Nevada after pleading guilty last year to domestic battery and no-contest to two counts of harassment for assaulting his former girlfriend, who is the mother of his three children( I really wish I  could have sent him a Happy Father's Day card).


But unfortunately after 15 days incarcerated Maywheather's lawyer Richard Wright  filed a motion for his client to be put in house arrested for the remainder of his sentence due to intolerable conditions being confined in a cell for 23 hours. They argue facilities in Clark County Detention Center  aren't suitable for Maywheather to workout in and with only taking in 800 calories since being incarcerated in contrast to his previous 3,000 to 4,000 he is already losing muscle definition, all in which could jeopardize his boxing career.Mayweather and his legal council asked for house arrest for the remainder of his sentence as a  alternative which was denied. Even though I hate violence against women I'd have to chuckle a bit if  Mayweather got to sit at home in his million dollar mansion after hitting his baby mama. Wouldn't seem like much punishment for the crime lol. I also have to scratch my head a bit and ask myself, what in the hell did his baby mama do to make him so angry? It couldn't have been having his kids and putting him on child support. After three kids with his baby mama seems like he wanted it to last forever. Maybe she put her hands in his money bag he always carries around? Being a greedy baby mama is never a good thing. Maybe she tried to fuck Ray-J, 50 cent or any other member of the Money Team?  But whatever the case maybe it would seem like all that anger and frustration he had for his baby mama would induce him to train more.Shouldn't he hit a punching bag, do some calisthenics, or go tease Chilli from TLC on another season of her reality show, " What Chilli Wants," into being his girl friend again if he was that angry? I just don't understand, if you punch people for a living and are one of the richest paid athletes in the world what in the hell would make you so furious to hit the mother of your child? I'll digress from that, I'll get a headche trying to understand that.


Overall this isn't the second account of Maywheather being charge with domestic violence. He was charged in 2002 for the same thing against two other women. In my opinion no matter how rich, famous, and/ or talent you are, you must always take responsibilities for your actions.I hope this is the last time Mayweather put his hands on a female again. Such a talented and entertaining individual should always remain a class act for people who look at him as a role model, such as his kids, aspiring professional boxers, and for his image in general. So with that being noted I think Mayweather should relax as much as he can for now and be a lot more optimistic because even though he did a bad thing, he'll still return to boxing and still continue to be undefeated.
Click on the link below and you'll see old footage of Gucci Mane giving his former bunk buddy a nudge than a Gucci Haymaker on stage at a concert. http://dimewars.com/Video/Gucci-Mane-Punches-Girl-In-The-Face.aspx?bcmediaid=20b9474b-4824-498f-a8da-fbcbafc4f92e

The Origin

I felt the need to do this. I've been extremely frustrated this week and I need some outlet to vent my frustrations on. I'm new to this and I'm a work in progress but hopefully this confusing template will give me the luxury of voicing my opinions, thoughts, weirdness or anything else in a effective manner. To get straight to the point, people tell me I'm funny. I deserve my own television sitcom or I should  be a comedian, all in which sound like good occupations that unfortunately for me will  start me off broker than I already am without the guarantee that I'll get rich and fulfill any delusion of grandeur that I've ever had in my lifetime. So I guess this is the second best thing.

I feel more comfortable talking about myself now. I'm in better health than I have been since probably senior year of high school, I'm almost finished with college and I've finally got some ab definition back. I'm pretty much kind of feeling myself right now....( I'm joking) but  I can remember four years ago almost going off the deep end living in a one bedroom apartment in Olympia accomplishing almost nothing. There's nothing like starting off your young adulthood after graduating high school then making almost every mistake possible...( Maybe I'm exaggerating a little bit). So as I digress from the worst of my past I can toast to today at this present moment. I'm more weirder than I have ever been, more wiser, more entertaining, even more sexually frustrated than ever! So everyone that reads this I appreciate it and most likely if I've been mad at you this week you're probably the reason why I'm up so late writing this. #Louie